Authentically Ash

Okay bestie, let’s keep it real for a sec. You’ve already made it to my blog—which means you’re vibing with the content, right? So why not make this official and subscribe real quick? Subscribing is like getting the group chat tea before it hits the streets. You’ll get first dibs on new posts, juicy girl talks, glow-up tips, faith boosters, life lessons, love confessions, and all the raw, unfiltered truth your soul didn’t know it needed 💅🏽✨ I’m building a space where we can grow together, cry together, heal together—and of course, LAUGH till our stomachs hurt 😂 Whether you're here for the self-improvement, the headlines, the relationship drama, or the spiritual gems—I got you. And don't worry—no spam, no weird vibes. Just real talk, real love, and real content delivered straight to your inbox 💖 So go ahead, sis. Hit that subscribe button. Let’s level up together—one post at a time 💁🏽‍♀️💌 👉🏽 [Subscribe & Stay In The Loop 💫] ***How to Subscribe :  Just tap t...

Hey sis! So you’re ready to level up your ENTIRE life and become That Girl ... but you’re looking around like, “Where do I even start??” Don’t worry, I got you! We’re gonna glow up the right way — inside and out. (And no, you don’t need to have it all figured out today lol. Baby steps, boo! ) If you’re starting from scratch, here’s your Level Up Starter Pack to get you glowing for real: 1. Fix Your Mindset First ✨ Your mind is the first thing that has to change, period. You have to believe you deserve the soft life, the peace, the love, the money, all of it . If you’re still thinking small, playing scared, or doubting yourself — the glow up won’t stick. (Trust me.) 2. Heal That Heart, Sis ❤️‍🩹 You can’t build a new life dragging old pain around. Start letting go of those dusty wounds, toxic situationships, and survival mode habits. Forgiveness isn’t for them — it’s for YOU. Your freedom is waiting. 3. Build Little Daily Habits (Baby Glow Steps) Girl, you don't...

Hey babe, Let’s be real — sex is everywhere these days. But emotional imprinting ? Now that’s a whole different game. If you’re dating someone new (or even someone you’ve been vibing with for a while), you don’t just want to be another good night he forgets about, right? ✨ You want to leave a mark — a good one. The kind he can't stop thinking about... even when he’s back at work, hanging with his boys, or laying in bed at night. 🧠❤️ But first... What is emotional imprinting? Basically, it’s when you leave a deep emotional "stamp" on someone's heart and mind. It’s that feeling of connection and energy that stays with them — long after the clothes come off. It’s when sex isn’t just physical… it becomes mental and emotional too. And sis, that’s where the real magic happens. So how do you actually imprint on someone after sex? Here’s the tea: 1. Be Present, Not Performative ✨ Girl, don't overthink every move. Don’t get so caught up in "look...

Hey sis! So, you’ve probably heard the term "304 culture" flying around TikTok, Instagram, and everywhere else lately. But if you’re wondering what the heck it even means , let’s break it down real quick. ✍🏽 "304" is slang for "hoe" — if you type 3-0-4 into a calculator and flip it upside down, it looks like it spells h-o-e. (Crazy, right?!) Now, when people talk about 304 culture , they’re talking about this whole vibe where girls are outside living their best lives — flirting, dating, hooking up, not settling down, and basically doing whatever they want, unapologetically. It’s about being bold, confident, fun, and sometimes... a little reckless lol. 🍸✨ So Why Are 304 Girls Winning Right Now? Honestly, it’s because they understand a few key things — and if we’re smart, we can learn from them without losing who we are. Let's get into it: 1. Confidence is Everything 304 girls move like they’re THAT girl . Period. They don’t wait for anyone to va...

Hey sis! If you're anything like me, love, sex, and relationships are topics that just stay on our minds lol. Whether you're boo'd up, single and thriving, healing from a situationship, or just figuring it all out — this is your safe space. ✨ We’re gonna talk about all of it here — the good, the bad, the messy, the magical. No judgment. No shame. Just real girl chat, heart-to-hearts, and a little advice sprinkled in. 💌 So grab your coffee (or wine, I’m not judging lol) ☕️ , get comfy, and let’s get into it! You are not alone in this journey — and here, your feelings are always valid. Can’t wait to spill, heal, and glow with you! ✨ Love you already,  XOXO Ash 💕

 Heyyyy friend! 👋Welcome to my cozy corner of the internet—so glad you're here! I'm Ashley Shanea (call me Ash), and this blog is pretty much my digital diary. It’s where I spill all the tea (and occasional ramblings) that run through my mind on the daily. From what's trending and juicy in current events to self-improvement tips, beauty hacks, skincare must-haves, and all things glow-up—I'm here to talk about it all. Think of this as our virtual hangout, a totally safe space to chat about the highs, the lows, and everything in-between. No judgment, just good vibes, real talk, and plenty of laughs. So, grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let's navigate life together, one post at a time. I can't wait to connect, grow, and level up with you! XOXO, Ash Contact Me:   Authenticallyash101@gmail.com

Hey girl! Summer’s finally here ☀️ and you already know we’re stepping outside looking cute without emptying our wallets! I found five super affordable outfit ideas you’re gonna be obsessed with — all from Shein (because why spend a bag when you don’t have to? ) Let’s get into it: 1. Cool + Edgy Babe This look is giving fashion-forward without even trying! A corset-style white top ✨, textured black-and-white shorts, oversized yellow glasses 🕶️, and some tall black boots 👢 — YES, ma’am. Add a pop with a yellow bag 👜, and you’re ready to turn heads. 2. Grown Woman Energy Nothing says “I’ve arrived” like this classy combo: a structured cream top 🤍, bold burnt orange textured pants 🧡, strappy heels 👠, and gold accessories ✨. This look is grown , sexy, and perfect for brunch or rooftop vibes. 3. Vacation Mode Activated If you’re outside for summer, you need this outfit 🌴. A white halter top, crochet colorblock shorts ❤️‍🔥, comfy white slides 👡, and a fun fuzzy orange bag ...

Sometimes you just wake up and realize... you're ready to be someone new. Not because the old you was bad, but because growth is kinda hot. Reinventing yourself doesn’t mean starting from scratch — it’s more like editing your vibe, upgrading your mindset, and maybe switching up your coffee order. Let go of what’s not serving you, romanticize the little things, and step into the version of you that feels the most you . You’ve got range, babe — don’t be afraid to show it.

Let’s be real — when we think of black excellence and power couple goals , Barack and Michelle Obama are top tier . The love, the class, the partnership — they made it look so beautiful from the outside. But recently, Michelle has been opening up... and sis has been getting real about what it actually took to hold everything together. In a recent podcast episode of “IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson,” Michelle said: "I'm at this stage in life where I have to define my life on my terms for the first time. So what are those terms? What happened that eight years that we were in the White House? What did that do to me internally, my soul?" Whew. 😮‍💨 That’s deep. From what she’s sharing, it sounds like carrying the weight of being “America’s First Black First Lady” (while raising kids, supporting Barack, and dealing with the constant pressure of being “perfect”) took a serious toll on her personally and emotionally. She even said: "We made it throug...

Hey sis 💕 if you’re reading this, I just wanna say… take a deep breath. I know how it feels to have your mind racing, your chest tight, and your heart carrying the weight of everything at once. Life be life-ing sometimes, and anxiety will really try to take over if you let it. But here’s the thing: God never meant for us to carry it all alone. He literally invites us to give our worries to Him. And the beautiful part? He doesn’t get tired of us bringing the same fears, the same stress, the same breakdowns over and over. He just wants our hearts — even the anxious, overthinking, unsure parts. Let me share some scriptures that always help me when I’m feeling overwhelmed. Keep these close. Read them out loud. Let them sit in your spirit when your mind is doing the most. 📖 Scriptures to Calm an Anxious Heart: 1. Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV) "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And th...

Hey boo 💕 So I just wanna kick off this section by saying — yes, I’m a Christian. I believe in Jesus Christ with my whole heart. That’s my foundation. But I also believe that we are spiritual beings living in a physical world (hope I said that right lol). Life is deeper than what we can see with our eyes, and I’m learning more about that every day. Now let me be real clear — I’m not here to preach at you or try to convert anybody. That’s not my vibe. I’m just a girl on her own spiritual journey, figuring things out one prayer and breakthrough at a time. This space is where I’ll be sharing what I’m learning, what God is showing me, and how I’m growing through it all. Also... I’m not perfect. I have my days. I mess up. I still say “whew chile” when life tries me. But I love God, and I want to become more like Christ — in the most authentic, honest way possible. So if you’ve ever felt like you’re trying to get your life together spiritually, but don’t feel like you fully fit into th...

Let’s be real... getting your nails done at the salon is lowkey robbery these days. $70, $80, even $100+ for a basic set?! Girl, bye. If you’re trying to stay cute without going broke, let me put you on real quick: press-on nails . Yup — the press-ons are not the crusty ones from back in the day. They’re cute, affordable, and honestly... people can’t even tell the difference anymore. You can grab a bomb set for like $8–$15 at Target, Amazon, or even your local beauty supply. Pop 'em on in like 10 minutes and boom — instant baddie energy without killing your wallet. ✨ Pro Tip: I actually made a YouTube video showing you exactly how to make your press-ons last 2-3 weeks! (Yes, weeks. 👏🏽) You can check it out Here . Trust me, it’s a game changer. Also, if you want something even cuter and custom-made, my friend creates super affordable, baddie-approved press-ons too! You can shop her designs  here . Save your coins and stay cute, sis. Press-ons are the new luxury . 💖

Okay, listen... being pretty isn't just about looking good — it's about feeling good too. If you want to level up your pretty game without doing the most , here’s a quick 3-step glow-up you can start like, today. 1. Take Care of Your Skin (Girl, Trust Me) Nothing — and I mean nothing — hits harder than clean, glowing skin. You don't need a million products either. Just wash your face, moisturize, and please wear sunscreen. Even if it’s cloudy. Even if you're just running errands. Protect that pretty face! 2. Fix Your Posture (Instant Upgrade!) I’m telling you... shoulders back, chin up, back straight — you instantly look hotter, more confident, and more put together. Slouching is out, “I’m that girl” energy is in. Walk into every room like God himself sent you. 3. Smile and Make Eye Contact (Secret Weapon) You could have zero makeup on and still be the prettiest girl in the room if your energy is right. Smiling (for real, not fake smiling) and making soft, warm eye...

I woke up one day and realized: the life I dreamed of wasn’t going to magically happen. It was up to me to level up — spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically. This blog is me holding myself accountable and maybe inspiring you along the way.