Why I’m Choosing to Level Up in Every Area of My Life...

I woke up one day and realized: the life I dreamed of wasn’t going to magically happen. It was up to me to level up — spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically. This blog is me holding myself accountable and maybe inspiring you along the way.

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💸 How to Ask a Man for Money 💅🏽 (Without Feeling Weird About It 👀)

Hey bestieeee 😘 let’s get into something we don’t talk about enough — asking a man for money . Like fr, why are we out here being cute, soft, loyal, giving vibes AND giving coochie 😂… but scared to ask for what we need ? Let’s be for real — girl maintenance is expensive AF 💅🏽💇🏽‍♀️💄 and the world isn’t free. Your lashes cost. Your time costs. Your energy is elite. PERIODT. 💁🏽‍♀️💰 If a man wants access to you, sis — emotionally, physically, mentally — he should also come with provision. And no, that don’t make you a gold digger. It makes you a woman who knows her worth 💎. 🧠 Step 1: Shift Your Mindset 💭✨ Stop thinking you’re “begging” or “doing too much.” You’re NOT. Men who genuinely care about you WANT to provide. It’s literally in their masculine wiring 🧠💪🏽. 👉🏽 Asking doesn’t make you desperate. 👉🏽 It makes you direct, feminine, and clear on your value. Period. Asking for support doesn't make you needy; it makes you human. Men often take pride in p...

Everything We Learned From the Diddy Scandal So Far (And It's Worse Than You Think) 👀🔥

Hey Sis... grab your tea ☕ because what’s coming out of this Diddy trial is WILD 😳🔥. And honestly? Lowkey terrifying 😩. From scared jurors to freak-offs with gallons of baby oil 🧴🛁, the things being exposed are enough to make your skin crawl 😨. Let’s break it down 👇🏾 🔒 The Jury is SHOOK — and Rightfully So 😬 This trial isn’t just messy — it’s historic 🧠📜. Jurors are literally afraid to be involved 😱. Imagine sitting in a Manhattan courtroom 🏛️ with Sean “Diddy” Combs staring you down the entire time 👀. Because yep, that’s exactly what he’s doing. He hasn’t taken his eyes off the jury since day one — giving "you better not find me guilty" vibes 😤. Originally, jury selection was supposed to wrap up on a Friday 📆, but the judge had to delay it ⏳. Why? Because there was fear that some jurors would back out over the weekend 😨 once the reality of the case set in. One even asked to be removed for reasons tied to their personal safety and well-being 🆘. And let...

5 Ways to Leave an Emotional Imprint After Sex ❤️‍🔥

Hey babe, Let’s be real — sex is everywhere these days. But emotional imprinting ? Now that’s a whole different game. If you’re dating someone new (or even someone you’ve been vibing with for a while), you don’t just want to be another good night he forgets about, right? ✨ You want to leave a mark — a good one. The kind he can't stop thinking about... even when he’s back at work, hanging with his boys, or laying in bed at night. 🧠❤️ But first... What is emotional imprinting? Basically, it’s when you leave a deep emotional "stamp" on someone's heart and mind. It’s that feeling of connection and energy that stays with them — long after the clothes come off. It’s when sex isn’t just physical… it becomes mental and emotional too. And sis, that’s where the real magic happens. So how do you actually imprint on someone after sex? Here’s the tea: 1. Be Present, Not Performative ✨ Girl, don't overthink every move. Don’t get so caught up in "look...

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