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πŸ’³ Budgeting for Baddies: How to Handle Money with Main Character Energy πŸ’…πŸ½

 

Hey Sis, 😘 Let’s talk about something a little less sexy than lace fronts, but waaay more powerful — your money. Yeahhh, I know budgeting sounds boring, but hear me out:
Being broke is even more boring. 😩

If you wanna level up your life, rock your soft girl era, travel, glow, rest, and still be THAT girl — you gotta get real about your coins. And no, you don’t have to be rich to feel in control. You just need a lil main character money mindset πŸ’…πŸ½πŸ’Έ

Let’s get into it.


✨ Step 1: Know Where Your Money is Going (No More ✨Mystery Math✨)

You ever check your bank account and think:

“Who spent all this money?”
...only to realize it was YOU? 😭

It’s giving: emotional spending meets retail therapy with no receipts.

Start tracking your money. Not to punish yourself, but to EMPOWER yourself.
🧁 Download an app like Mint, Rocket Money, or Goodbudget
πŸ“’ Or just write it down in your notes app like:

Nails - $75
Uber Eats - $40
Target (aka my weakness) - $98

Once you SEE it, you can fix it. Main characters don’t ignore red flags — even in their bank accounts πŸ’…πŸ½


✨ Step 2: Romanticize Budgeting Like It’s Self-Care πŸ•―️

Girl, budgeting doesn’t have to be dry and boring. Light a candle, grab some iced coffee, put on a cute playlist, and call it a "Money Date."

Break it down like this:

  • πŸ’΅ Necessities (50%) → rent, groceries, transportation

  • 🧘🏽‍♀️ Self-care (30%) → nails, skincare, brunch with the girls

  • πŸ’° Savings + goals (20%) → emergency fund, trips, future glow-ups

It’s not about restricting — it’s about planning for the life you want 🫢🏽



✨ Step 3: Give Your Coins a Job πŸƒπŸ½‍♀️

Main character money has direction. Every dollar should be working for you, not disappearing on vibes.

πŸ’…πŸ½ That $15? Put it in your lash fund.
πŸ’„ That refund check? Split it: bills, savings, and a lil treat.
πŸ’Έ Got extra? Make a “Soft Life Stash” — because even baddies need a buffer!

And sis — don’t sleep on extra streams of income. Start that side hustle, sell that skill, launch that mini biz. You don’t need a full brand rollout — start small and stay consistent:

πŸ’» Freelance
πŸ“¦ Resell fashion or beauty items
πŸ“± Monetize your content
πŸ’‹ Start a beauty service (lashes, brows, press-ons… hello!)

More coins = more choices. And we LOVE a financially free baddie πŸ’πŸ½‍♀️


✨ Step 4: Stop Feeling Guilty About Spending (Just Be Smart)

You can get your nails done, take trips, shop AND still be financially solid. You just have to plan it.

✨Set limits.
✨Give yourself permission.
✨Balance is sexy af.

Treat yourself, just don’t trick yourself 😭


✨ Step 5: Manifest + Multiply πŸ’«

Now that your money’s under control, speak life over it.

Say things like:

“I attract money effortlessly.”
“I spend wisely and receive freely.”
“My bank account stays blessed.”

Affirmations hit different when your budget is backing them up πŸ˜ŒπŸ’–


πŸ’­ Final Thoughts:

Being that girl doesn’t mean breaking the bank for the aesthetic. It means moving like your future self is already watching you now.

πŸ’…πŸ½ Keep it cute.
πŸ“’ Keep it organized.
πŸ’Έ Keep your money working for you — not against you.

Budgeting is the new glow-up. And baby, you're already on your way πŸ’–

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